Do you want to learn how to make your ex want you back? There is probably a million things going through your mind right now, and I bet your head is all over the place. Losing someone you love is tough, I should know!
Practically everyone has been involved in a bad relationship breakup at some point, and it’s something very hard to avoid.
Luckily for you, I’m going to lay out just what you need to do to get your ex boyfriend or girlfriend back in your arms. You see, there are some fatal mistakes that you can make, which could jeopardize your chances for good. The tactics laid out in this article are very powerful, so make sure you use them!
The first thing I want to talk to you about, is why do you really want to get back with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend? You see, I had a pal that really missed his ex girlfriend and really wanted her back. However it wasn’t her that he wanted, it was the idea of having a girlfriend. You see, their relationship was constantly “on-off” because he wanted a girlfriend, but he didn’t love her!
If you want to get back with your ex just to have a boy or girlfriend again, then perhaps you need to think about your motives. However if you are sure that it is the person, not the idea, that you want back, then read on.
The next step you need to follow is assess why you and your end broke up. What was it? Was it because one of you cheated? If so, why did you or your ex cheat? Did you break up due to arguments? If so, why did you argue? Some relationships just end totally out of the blue. Why did you think it suddenly ended?
These are tough questions that you need to ask yourself before you take another step further in reuniting you and your ex. Once you have some sort of idea what happened, you can then move another step further to reconciliation.
Now where most people make a mistake is when they try to bombard their ex with lots of calls and texts telling their ex that they love and need them, basically coming off very clingy. You might think showing your love and affection will win them back. This isn’t Hollywood, this is real life. Doing that will just give them all the power and control, and they won’t want to know.
Instead, you should accept the break up. Rather than bombarding them with desperate pleas, tell them that you agree with the decision of the break-up, and that you two needed time apart.
This will throw them off guard, they’ll see you as a strong, independent person, who isn’t relying on them for happiness. Believe it or not, this is an attractive trait.
So now you know the beginning how to win your ex back, you need to start plotting how to reunite you and your ex for good.